Okay, obviously it's Steven, but this guy is probably my #1 right now. . .due to the fact that I see him 2+ times a week.
Meet...
Meet...
Dr. Daneshmand
aka Dr. D
he's pretty endearing!
I met with Dr. D on the 21st of last month, for my initial consultation. Call me pretentious, but I let him know that my dad is, in fact, a Fertility Specialist. After being overlooked by a former doctor, I had to set up a good defense this time around. He caught my drift.
Remember when I said that Steven needed to be there with me? Here's why...
In ALL of the facts/possibilities/probabilities/explanations discussed about my endometriosis/possible PCOS/one tube, he said that research shows.......
aka Dr. D
he's pretty endearing!
Months ago, even before I knew that our fertility struggle would go this far, I talked to a co-worker who had her little girl through IVF. We talked a lot (and continue to talk A LOT) and she suggested that if I ever had issues, to go and see Dr. D. Well, lucky for me, my insurance covers fertility testing through FCLV where Dr. D is one of the head physicians...btw, I do consider this very lucky!
I met with Dr. D on the 21st of last month, for my initial consultation. Call me pretentious, but I let him know that my dad is, in fact, a Fertility Specialist. After being overlooked by a former doctor, I had to set up a good defense this time around. He caught my drift.
Remember when I said that Steven needed to be there with me? Here's why...
In ALL of the facts/possibilities/probabilities/explanations discussed about my endometriosis/possible PCOS/one tube, he said that research shows.......
I have a 10% chance of getting pregnant on my own . . . WITHOUT IVF
Depressing...majorly depressing. I have had a hard time reconciling this bit of information. Had I known, I wish that Steven was there to hear everything else after that. I zoned out.
The next day, still sulking, I texted my dad. Which in retrospect, may have been a form of undermining him. I told him that there was no point in getting the HSG test, when I'm just going to have to get IVF anyways. I can be really whiny. His reply,Depressing...majorly depressing. I have had a hard time reconciling this bit of information. Had I known, I wish that Steven was there to hear everything else after that. I zoned out.
"Stop being, stupid!" "I told you that you have a 65% chance without IVF and if it has to happen that way, then you'll have IVF."
Not what I wanted to hear, but I probably deserved it. Mind you, the man (my dad) never gets impatient! I should give him more credit: he knows my surgery, he has seen my films, he knows his stuff.
But like I told my Mom, "Is he just being optimistic because I'm his daughter?"
I guess time and testing will tell.
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